How does one succeed in life?

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

If Russia needs the resources to fund the war in Ukraine, why doesn’t it throw open its doors to visa free western tourism? Enough people would be interested, & it would start to get some hard currency as €, CHF, £, SEK, $, JPY in the tills at shops.

What I need from you?

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Procrastinates a lot.

Why have cell phones, the internet, and reality TV turned the world into a toilet, as this has not advanced us in any way?

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Why are the bands Smashmouth and Nickelback often used as punchlines?

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

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Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Ask yourself:

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Why would a person always be so tired?

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Making more friends is a goal.

Why do I (45, male) feel like I'm crushing on a girl (19, female)?

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Hangs out with loser friends.

What do all Indian parents have in common?

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

What transforms the philosophical intellect?

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

I found out I have cancer—I have not told my family. We can’t afford the treatment anyway. Should I just say nothing and let nature take its course?

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Relocating to Sweden to save money. I got a job offer of 47000SEK before tax, visas sponsored for my wife & my mother (with a laryngectomy). My wife, a general medicine graduate, wants to specialize in Sweden. Can we live well and save 4000€ monthly?

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

What caused the decline of the Soprano crew?

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Is it safe to say that China is at least 30 years ahead of India?

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Should parents be allowed to bring children into R-rated movies? What are the potential consequences of doing so?

Does not procrastinate.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Do not set goals—set systems.

That's it for today.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.